Thank you so much for joining us in this interview series! Before we dive in, our readers would love to learn a bit more about you. Can you tell us a bit about your “childhood backstory”?
I’m a born and bred New Yorker raised on the Upper East Side. Growing up, my family loved hosting and entertaining — every event was a special occasion, with my mother and grandmother both going all out for dinner parties and birthdays. Even as a teenager, I served as the resident party planner for friends, helping them host themed parties, design birthday invitations, and decorate their homes for college acceptances and prom. Hosting was something I enjoyed doing from a young age, and you could even say it was in my blood!
Can you tell us the story of what led you to this particular career path?
I’ve always loved event planning, inspired by my mother and grandmother’s passion for entertaining. During college, however, I had my first exposure to working in events through internships in public relations. I found I had a passion for taking events from ideas on a creative moodboard to IRL, well-executed experiences. After working in banking for a few years, I missed the creative energy of event planning and decided to launch my own boutique business in NYC in 2022.
It has been said that sometimes our mistakes can be our greatest teachers. Can you share a story about a mistake you made when you were first starting and the lesson you learned from that?
One of the mistakes I made when first starting Forbes Functions was not communicating effectively with my clients. Early on, I let my clientele set the standard for communications. Instead of taking the reins and organizing discussions effectively via email or another platform, communications became muddled across different channels and quickly led to the loss of professional boundaries, as well as client requests getting lost in translation. Afterward, I moved all communication over to a professional email suite. The mistake of not setting the tone and leading the client in professional communications taught me the importance of being organized from the outset. Whether it’s having a streamlined intake process, or monitoring email hourly to ensure timely responses, forming these routines helped me run my business much more effectively and efficiently going forward.
Is there a particular book, podcast, or film that made a significant impact on you? Can you share a story or explain why it resonated with you so much?
The Skinny Confidential, a lifestyle blog, brand, and podcast by Lauryn Evarts Bosstick, has had such a significant impact on me over the last two years of running Forbes Functions. Not only do Lauryn and her husband Michael discuss the nitty gritty of running multiple businesses — they also open up candidly about their personal lives, burnout, and balancing it all. Lauryn’s commitment to her routine — she’s known for her color-coded Google calendar that rules her day — has helped inspire me to put in place my own systems and schedules. Furthermore, her sense of creativity and curiosity motivates me daily! Lauryn has interviewed guests from Bravo stars and business leaders to Olympians and skincare experts. Her drive to discover new ideas, perspectives, and trends pushes me to explore the possibilities in event planning and get creative with my designs for clients.
Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?
My favorite quote, and one I reflect on often, is “comparison is the thief of joy.” As a female founder, I often find myself comparing my business to those of others in my field and beyond, and have to remind myself not to focus on other’s successes but instead enjoy my own. As an event planner, clients will come to me wanting to achieve a look they saw on a friend or influencer’s Instagram and may be surprised when I let them know the budget needed to achieve that look. No matter the area of life, whether it’s career or social, “comparison is the thief of joy,” and it’s best to focus on what you enjoy rather than the joy of others.
Ok, thank you for that. Let’s now jump to the primary focus of our interview. For the benefit of our readers, can you tell us a bit about your experience organizing events?
Since starting my business in June 2022, I have planned over 75 events. I’ve organized everything from the super small and intimate, like proposals and dinner parties, to 350-person charity galas, VIP brand activations, and weddings. Some of my favorite Forbes Functions events from the past year include Baked by Melissa founder Melissa Ben-Ishay’s cookbook launch party, influencer Eli Rallo’s book preorder party, a VIP charity event for nonprofit Gray for Glioblastoma, and a backyard wedding in East Hampton.
Are you running any exciting events in the near future? We’d love to hear about it. What do you want attendees to bring back with them after they attend your event?
I have a ton of exciting events coming up! Over the next few weeks, I’m working on a launch event for a clothing brand, a charity gala for a New York City nonprofit, multiple birthday parties, a VIP fundraiser, and a couple of dinner parties in the Hamptons. I always want attendees to leave Forbes Functions events feeling like they’ve emerged from a one-of-a-kind experience. Guests should feel immersed in the event and walk away wowed by the attention to detail. From custom cocktails to personalized menus and place cards, the devil is in the details!
In your opinion, what is an example of a company that has done a fantastic job creating live events? What specifically impresses you? What can one do to replicate that?
One company I feel does a fantastic job at creating live events is Poppi. To launch one of their recent flavors, they hosted a convenience-store-inspired activation in Los Angeles. Guests were able to test the new flavor, enjoy custom limited edition Poppi merch, and share their experiences on social media. Allowing regular customers to visit this twist on a classic convenience store provided the perfect way to capture user-generated content, as guests took photos and shared their Poppimart experience, just like their favorite TikTok and Instagram influencers. To replicate the impact of Poppi’s live events, I recommend brands plan activations that bring in their audience! Influencer and VIP dinners are so overdone; giving back to customers is the latest way to make a splash on social media.
What are the common mistakes you have seen people make when they try to run an event? What can be done to avoid those errors?
Common mistakes people make when event planning include not setting aside enough time to plan, not keeping track of the budget and vendors, and underestimating the true cost of hosting. Sometimes, potential clients will reach out to me for an event just a week or two before. I recommend a timeline of at least a month, depending on the size of the event and the scope of work. Additionally, I advise people to prepare a running document for their event that includes all vendor documents, a detailed run of show, a site map or floor plan, an inventory list, and a contact list. Having all of these details on hand on the day of your event will make set-up so much more seamless. Finally, make sure you understand the true costs of the event — reach out to a couple of vendors to get a sense of pricing and availability before you build your budget. Having an understanding of event costs before contracting any vendors will allow you to adhere to your budget and avoid any unexpected costs or fees.
Are there any essential tools or software that you think an event organizer needs to know about?
I love using Honeybook to share contracts with clients and Quickbooks to send and receive invoices for clients, employees, and vendors. For event organizers with smaller budgets, tools like Canva are incredible resources for designing everything from wedding welcome signs to conference lanyards. I also recommend Eventbrite for any ticketed or public events!